A Deck of Trick Cards

          Our relationships with other people can always be defined with purpose. When you meet someone you are both subject to first impressions, the initial judgement. From judgement comes assumption, and from there a purpose. The purpose may be one of three things: romance, resources, or friendship. Friendship is based on conversation, common interests, and boredom. We find friends for companionship.We find romance for personal completion. We seek out resources to better ourselves. The perfect relationship would have all of the components of these three purposes.
          We choose our friends the same as we choose our enemies. Observation leads us to compaire ourselves to each person we meet in speech, appearance, habbits, posture, features, ect. Our assesments tell us what we beleive to have in common and gives us purpose to therefor initiate a connection for better or for worse. Now that you have been aquainted an imprint remains of the encounter.

            Of all the people that you meet a few will be unique. A few lucky people pass your examinations and are concidered as potential partners or comrades. Of these you will form close relationships and trust these few with your inner thoughts, emotions, memories, hopes, and dreams. I good friend acts as a recycling center for all loose thought, conversation. We form ideas and morals from our own minds recycled conversations, knowledge, and blabber jabber into our own speech and thought. No thought is original, every thought is pulled from a past resource allowing for ideas to bloom and research to be made.
         We make ourselves better by compairing ourselves to what we concider to be wrong. There can be no wrong if there is no right. So then what is right? Many people concider morals, wholesomeness, goodness and knowledge to be good. Therefor bad people would come from bad morals, uncleanliness, bitterness, and stupidity. There is no true perfection. There is no valliant knight without blood on his hands. We all fall short.
          From our personal sense of right and wrong we make decisions. We decide of what people we've met who to be with, and what we will do with ourselves along the way. Not every decision will be easy, but you must weigh your options. When there is decision 'A' and decision 'B' you ask yourself what you have to gain, and what you have to loose by selecting each option. You will subcontiosly run scenarios and deduce wich you will gain optimal resources and life experience from (aka: whats fun, whats cheap, whats easy). Often we go with the option where we will loose as little as necassary, but this does not make it the right answer. But we will never know till after it is decided.


               So from these truths we write our own cards. Everything within our controll happens as a direct result of a decision we have previously set in stone. Nothing can be undone, only covered up. And sometimes the ugly comes back to bite you. We all choose our cards, life is nothing unexpected.